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The Strategic Linguist's avatar

Varsha, this is such an important topic. Thank you for covering this. I wrote a piece in December on the linguistics of fertility and the language in this space is alarming vague, urgent and lacks any care.

Fertility clinics in the US, like a lot of other clinics like dental, health or vet, are owned by VCs and it’s evident in their processes, marketing and general care of their patients.

“You will never be as fertile as you are today.”

This kind of “influencer” speak is damaging for women looking for real advice and support; I’ve seen it and captured a few days worth of headlines, forcing women into decisions in a very personal and emotional space though persuasive language.

The research on high dose medication for egg retrieval and the outcomes isn’t guaranteed, and yet they’re discussed like they are. The need for quality of eggs vs quantity are the quieter voices that don’t get the air time.

I leave my comments there — but thank you for this piece!

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As someone who has undergone the procedure, I respectfully invite the reader to exercise caution when reading this article. While the young author deftly deploys loaded and cynical terms like “ploy” and “late stage capitalism”, the article is critically lacking in evidentiary support for such claims.

For a topic which demands careful and considered research and commentary this article falls short.

My view is that with appropriate and informed medical care, egg freezing offers women the option to exercise autonomy and control over their fertility. Any woman who is serious enough about their fertility to consider egg freezing would be astute enough to appreciate that careful research should be undertaken before making this decision. Take the time to ask your GP and then your specialist all the questions you need to. Consider the full spectrum of statistics in relation to the likelihood of a live birth. Speak to your friends and family about the choice.

Curiously this article fails to refer to the recently released egg freezing calculator by UNSW. It can be found here: https://yourivfsuccess.com.au/egg-freezing/calculator

This calculator is a helpful and independent way to consider whether egg freezing is something you want to pursue.

Unfortunately again, this article fails to highlight the fact that egg freezing is used to assist very sick women who need to defer having children, or for women dealing with unexpected and traumatic changes in their life circumstances. It offers a viable option for those women, where previously there was no option. It also offers choice and perhaps a “parachute” for women who have other priorities in their early thirties or who have not met a person with whom they would like to start a family.

Of course egg freezing can be expensive. It requires specialist medical care, nursing, medication, blood tests, ultrasounds, surgery and ultimately the use of revolutionary science to preserve biological matter. But it is not a capitalist ploy.

Rather than be deterred by this reductive and under researched article, my recommendation to you is to carefully read, listen and inquire. Check whether you are eligible for any Medicare subsidy. Inform yourself with independent material, with medically informed/backed information which will meaningfully assist you in making this choice. Start with your GP.

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