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I hope you can read this wonderful piece about Mary Beard. Explains so much how historically women have been treated.

She received rape threats for appearing on television to talk about ancient Rome.

Her response was to spend three years proving that the impulse behind those threats was at least three thousand years old.

Mary Beard is a Professor of Classics at Cambridge University. For most of her career, that meant academic papers read by other scholars, lectures for students, and quiet research in libraries. She studied a civilization that collapsed fifteen centuries ago.

Then she started appearing on BBC documentaries.

She was brilliant on screen. Accessible and funny, making two-thousand-year-old history feel urgent and alive. Audiences responded immediately.

But Mary didn't look like what television had decided female presenters were supposed to look like.

She was in her fifties. Long gray hair. A distinctive gap in her teeth. Zero interest in conforming to camera-ready beauty standards. She dressed like a professor because she was one.

The internet responded with extraordinary viciousness.

She was too ugly for television. She should stay in the library. She had a face for radio. And then — when she began speaking about politics and contemporary issues, the ordinary territory of male public intellectuals everywhere — the abuse escalated into something darker.

Rape threats. Death threats. Graphic descriptions of violence. In 2013, after she appeared on a BBC program discussing immigration, a man tweeted a detailed threat of genital mutilation. He faced prosecution. The threats kept coming.

Most people would have retreated. Quietly deleted social media. Stopped appearing publicly. Decided the cost was too high.

Mary did the opposite.

She started studying why this was happening — not as a psychologist analyzing individual trolls, but as a historian analyzing a pattern. She applied the same rigorous analytical tools she had spent decades bringing to ancient Rome and turned them on the present moment.

What she found stopped her cold.

This wasn't modern. It wasn't the internet. It wasn't a new problem created by anonymity and social media.

It was ancient.

In 2017, she published a book called *Women & Power: A Manifesto.* One hundred and fifteen pages. Three thousand years of evidence.

She begins with Homer's Odyssey — written around 700 BCE, one of the foundational texts of Western civilization. Early in the story, Penelope comes downstairs and asks a bard to stop singing a song that upsets her. Her son Telemachus — barely an adult — stops her.

*"Mother, go back upstairs and tend to your own tasks. Speech will be the business of men."*

This is one of the first scenes in Western literature.

A man telling a woman to shut up and go back to women's work. That public speech belongs to men.

Mary traces the pattern forward three thousand years without it ever fundamentally changing. Roman women who spoke publicly were described as barking or yapping — animal sounds rather than human speech. Women who claimed religious authority in medieval Europe were labeled witches or heretics. Elizabeth I had to rhetorically transform herself into an honorary man — *I have the body of a weak woman but the heart and stomach of a king* — simply to claim the authority to lead her own country.

The pattern is consistent across millennia. Women are welcome to hold private influence. To whisper advice to powerful men. To work behind the scenes and shape decisions without ever being seen to make them.

But public authority — the power to speak, to command, to be heard and obeyed — has been coded as masculine since the Odyssey.

Mary's argument cuts deeper than simple exclusion. Power itself, she argues, has been defined in ways that make women's authority feel unnatural. Transgressive. Wrong. Even when women reach positions of leadership, they face impossible double binds — too feminine and they're weak, too assertive and they're threatening, too competent and they're unnatural. Male leaders are simply leaders. Female leaders are permanently negotiating a trap built before they were born.

This isn't individual failure.

It is structural design.

Mary Beard holds some of the most impressive academic credentials in Britain. Dozens of scholarly books. A professorship at Cambridge. Unquestionable expertise on the ancient world.

When she became publicly visible, the response was not engagement with her ideas. It was attacks on her appearance, her age, and her right to speak at all. Strangers threatened her with sexual violence — threats designed specifically to remind a woman that her body can be violated for the crime of having opinions in public.

She experienced in 2013, personally, the exact pattern she had been reading about in Roman texts for forty years.

Her response was not to retreat. It was to document everything, show the full three-thousand-year arc, and prove that this silencing mechanism predates the internet by millennia — that it is not a collection of bad individuals but an ancient, embedded feature of how Western civilization has always understood power.

She still receives abuse. She also receives messages from women and girls who read her work and felt something shift — the recognition that the barriers they face are not personal failures. Not evidence that they aren't good enough, assertive enough, or leadership material.

The definition of leadership was simply designed without them.

Mary Beard is sixty-nine years old. She has spent her career studying dead Romans and became one of the most important voices on living power structures.

She proved that if you want to understand modern misogyny, you need to understand ancient misogyny.

Because the tools have changed — Twitter instead of the Roman Forum — but the impulse behind them is identical.

*Keep women out of public authority.*

Mary's response was to take three thousand years of that impulse and hold it up to the light — every document, every law, every threat, every dismissal — and say clearly and without flinching:

We can see you. We have always been able to see you. And we have the receipts going back to Homer.

#fblifestyle

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Charles Cowell

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I read this piece yesterday, and the comment from Charles Cowell below, and truthfully I can't get it out of my head. It feels very defeating to see the vitriol for women so prominent, violent and personal. It's almost like there is a large portion of men who would rather have social injustices and war crimes than support (or even just tolerate) a woman trying to make a positive change to that. Instead, we not only have to scream louder than men to be heard, but also be mentally stronger and more resilient to threats to our lives. When does it end?

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